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I was standing in line in the drugstore this evening and up walked a father with his 10 year old son. And what did the 10 year old boy have on? A t-shirt that said ?I wish my babysitter were a HOOTER girl.? I was quietly appalled.

I hear the most amazing stories, as an EQ coach (and see and hear things when I?m out and about) that corroborate the latest surveys showing that the majority of US citizens are concerned about the growing rudeness in America.

One woman?s boss considers it appropriate to strip down to his boxer shorts once the business day has begun.

In another office, the senior partner has a brain tumor, and is incontinent, and doesn?t care. ?For what I pay them,? he snarls, ?they can watch me pee my pants.?

I ?dine? in a booth at a restaurant and am assaulted by the kindergartner in the booth behind me Wholesale New NBA Jerseys , who screams, throws food, and keeps trying to leg his way over to my side.

My friend Anita has started a new job. The woman in the cubby next to her burns scented candles and plays loud music on her radio. When asked to cease and desist, she claims seniority.

I receive a receipt from a fast food restaurant, and for some odd reason actually read it. There it is: ?F*** you for eating at XXX? it says across the top, a manager?s nightmare. I am not making that up!

I move into the audience at a cruise presentation I?m giving, and sit down to work with a gentleman. He tells me he?s too ?sexually turned on (by moi?)? to concentrate.

And then there?s the cell phone abuse Wholesale Throwback NBA Jerseys , and retail clerk ?attitude.?

WHAT IS RUDENESS?

Rudeness is something upsetting. It?s something that assaults our ?space.? We can?t escape from the sight of other people, nor their odors, their noises, nor, should it come to that, their bodies or parts thereof. As they say in the Supreme Court, ?your right to swing your arm ends at the end of my nose.?

But there are other things more frequent and more invasive than fisticuffs Wholesale Custom NBA Jerseys , and our personal ?space? extends beyond our noses, inches to yards depending upon your culture.

IT IS BRAIN SCIENCE

Now, since I?m an EQ coach, let?s do a little brain science here. We ?are? our emotions, which come from our brains. We like to feel good, and we hate to feel bad. We don?t like to get angry; we like to be soothed. We hate insults; we adore compliments. We like to be able to concentrate and think. We don?t like to be disturbed and interrupted. A single noise at too high a decibel level can render us immediately deaf, but too much time in a sensory deprivation chamber drives us nuts. Like Goldilocks Wholesale Authentic NBA Jerseys , we don?t want too cold or too hot; we like it to be ?just right.?

We like our brain waves around beta and alpha. Beta is the normal waking consciousness, associated with concentration, arousal, alertness and cognition. However, at the higher levels, it?s associated with anxiety. Too much arousal is not a good thing.

When we can relax into the alpha range, we feel really good. This is the ?twilight? state between sleeping and waking. It?s relaxed focus at its higher levels Wholesale NBA Jerseys Online , and causes increase in serotonin production ? the ?feel good? chemical. This is when you stare at a sunset, play with the baby, listen to beautiful music, or get a massage. (The other two are theta (dreaming sleep) and delta (dreamless sleep).

Our optimal state is just going about our business, in pleasant surroundings. Rudeness is anything that jars us; anything that puts us into too high a state of arousal. It is IDEAL that we could stay in equilibrium. It is RUDENESS to be thrust out of it.

Being RUDE isn?t just saying certain words, it?s failing on any number of levels to RESPECT the other person ? their thoughts, feelings Wholesale NBA Jerseys From China , body, and soul.

What assaults us most are things that go directly to the reptilian brain ? things that trigger sex or aggression. There you are quietly enjoying your bagel and coffee and someone shoves past you, saying ?Move it ass****? and you start churning stomach acid, yes?

Rudeness is a violation of the other person?s sensibilities, but the line is blurred and varies. It?s like your mom told you about sex ? it?s not that you can?t do it, it?s when, where Wholesale NBA Jerseys China , how, and with whom.

LEARN HOW TO BEHAVE IN PUBLIC

Studying Emotional Intelligence with an EQ coach can help you determine what?s appropriate and what isn?t. There are things appropriate to intimate relationships that don?t work in the work place, and things that are appropriate in private, that are not appropriate in public. As the saying goes, ?We never grow up, we just learn how to behave in public.?

It?s okay to scratch where it itches when you?re home alone. When you do it in front of me, in a store Wholesale NBA Jerseys , it?s rude. The same act, too, may be OK in another culture or country. Pay attention!

Be particularly respectful of the things we can?t defend ourselves against. Your WORDS, we can defend against ? tell you to stop, counter, plug our ears, or leave. Your body odor Wholesale Throwback Jerseys , in an elevator? There isn?t much we can do, and it?s offensive.

Be particularly mindful in forced situations (if you share an office for instance) and of those who are helpless (is it just ?rude? to smoke in the car with a toddler?) and of those you can assault the most because you live with them (like your marital partner).

Here are the areas to watch out for, and examples of rudeness:

NOISE

1.Uncurbed cell phone use
2.Strident and harsh tones of voice
3.Talking too much or too loudly
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